For 40+ years, I was the good one.

I was the good son, the good Mormon, the good missionary, the good husband, the good teacher, the good employee... Just name it!

I followed rules, met all my expectations, and kept everyone comfortable.

Until it fell apart.

Divorce. Leaving the church. Realizing I had no idea who I was beneath all that performance.

The messy years that followed became my reclamation.

That journey led me here.

20 years guiding transformation (former 5th grade teacher, gifted education)

Lived experience (recovering people-pleaser in the middle of my own reclamation)

Certified training (Immersive Coach, Guided Meditation Facilitator)

Mormonism (40+ years religious performance)

Chronic people-pleasing, conflict avoidance, and more

Approval addiction (building life around others' expectations)

Performative identity (being who I thought I should be)

If any of these resonate, you're in the right place.

I'm spread thin. I'm still learning boundaries.

I share this not to undermine credibility but to offer honesty.

This work isn't about having it all figured out. Rather, it's about willingness to see patterns, unhook from what's held you back, and practice living authentically.

Looking for a guru with all the answers? I'm not your person.

Looking for a fellow traveler who knows the terrain? Let's talk.

Current life while building this work...

Piano tuner (maintaining perfect pitch while reclaiming imperfect authenticity)

Property caretaker for mountain estate

Winding down real estate to focus on this work

Based in Midway, Utah... Centrally located to serve premier mountain resort properties